Sometimes when things are falling apart, they may actually be falling into place. Patience is the calm acceptance that things can happen in a different order than the one we have in mind. We are only as strong as we allow ourselves to be; never get discouraged, never give up because consistency and dedication is the key to success as we learn from the following narrative.

As the story goes, one day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway, it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.

At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement, he quieted down. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on us, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a stepping-stone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up!

By Tim Pedrosa

Everyone who craps on you is not necessarily your enemy.  Everyone who gets you out of the crap is not necessarily your friend. And, if you are warm and happy in a pile of crap, keep your mouth shut.